What do you do with 15 minutes?

I recently read a blog post from Lorne Rubis, The Last 15 Minutes of Anything, discussing how important it is not giving up and giving it your all. One of the key points, is “Learning how to finish is something we can learn and practice“. Mr. Rubis is consistently a motivator, a leading example of work ethic, attempting work/life balance and how to truly practice your values at work and in life. This particular blog entry caught my attention for a couple of reasons:

1. I have incorporated a 15 minute minimum rule into my daily life for working on my writing. I use a technique I learned from Around The Writer’s Block (http://www.amazon.ca/dp/B011MCYQ4A). Basically, you follow a simple promise to yourself: have 15 minutes a day at least of product time. Product time can include research, editing, organizing, etc. including of course, writing itself. Product time (paraphrased in my own words) is anything that moves your writing forward. This is why it includes other things besides strictly writing. Since I’ve adopted this mentality, it’s helped me stop the time wasters of beating myself up for not creating something new and freed my creative juices to create more writing than I’ve produced in years!
2. Chronic Fatigue Syndrome/ME/FM all can have a drastic effect on what you can do in 15 minutes.

I  still remember the first time I had about 15 minutes of feeling symptom-free. I was approximately 19 years old and had literally been in bed for years. Attempting yet another thing to ease my symptoms, I was following a new regimen of high fiber cookies and an herbal tonic from a company called Lifestyles. At that time, it was the first time something made a difference.* Like a drug, that first high I experienced when I felt like I did before I got sick, was inspiring. Of course, it did not last, but I still actively seek that next high where I can feel like a “regular” person again, no fever, no aches, no nausea, just alive!

*In the long run, the products helped for a year or two and then I resumed a tolerable level of symptoms that remained the same for several years no matter what I tried. I use my own way of eating high protein, vegetables and low carbohydrates plus rest and moderate exercise to keep my symptoms in check.

That 15 minutes meant the world to me. What did I do? I actually just enjoyed the moment. I felt my body. I listened to my breath. I relished the moment.

Today, my world is vastly different. I work at a day job that needs at least 7.25 hours of my attention (usually more!) where I need to be engaged, intelligent and aware of my team, my goals, corporate objectives, etc., etc. I often find myself utilizing 15 minute increments to break the work down. I use this to help accomplish what I need to in the day/week/month but also to put things into smaller chunks. If i am experiencing a brain fog moment, I use a few techniques to overcome this:

• Stand up – take a breath.
• Walk for a few minutes.
• Clean up old e-mails (that do not need mental thought to process)
• Speak to a colleague.

15 minutes can mean finalizing a last section of a project, writing a blog entry when I am at home, or helping build a better relationship with a fellow team member. A lot can be accomplished in 15 minutes! Mr. Rubis’ blog refers to the last 15 minutes, but with CFS, that last 15 minutes can be at 10 am or 10 pm, depending on the day.

Take 15 minutes at a time – what can you do in 15 minutes to make your life better?

Please share your comments below!

 

Reflections Then and Now: A Typical Day (what is that?!)

Today I got up at 4:15 am (on purpose) because I have a busy at work and need to catch up on things, or at least have 2-3 hours before the meetings begin. As I drove the 45 minute commute, I thought how much my world has changed since 1988 when my symptoms first began. Back then, I was in high school, working part-time in the family janitorial business and doing hours of volunteer work. When I got sick, I began sleeping in – as you saw by my first sentence – not a common thing in my world. I could not stay awake. I came home, if I made it to school, exhausted. I fell asleep, Mom woke me up for supper, and then after eating, I was back asleep until the next morning. This went on with numerous doctor appointments, school discussions, etc. trying to figure out what was going on with my exhaustion.

Fortunately, around a year after my symptoms began, I was diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. in this post, I will not go through the roller coaster of exhaustion, insomnia and years of herbal remedies, diets and various methods we used to give me some energy and relief of symptoms.Eventually, I was able to stay awake and live off between 4 – 7 hours a sleep most nights. Currently, this is still the average amount of sleep I get nightly. On this schedule, I’ve been working full-time since 2001, and most of the time have some sort of extra-curricular volunteer, part-time job and/or social life.

Today, I work 5 days a week, 7 – 8 hours per day, more hours when needed, write in my spare time, include time for many other hobbies and interests. I have a busy career, active life and work out a few times a week at my own pace. There are many more things I plan to do in my life: I intend to write full-time and leave this working for someone else (as satisfying as it is; truly it is!) so I can travel and pursue my other interests.

It’s been about 27 years since I began sleeping 18-22 hours a day. I am extremely grateful I can manage my symptoms enough to lead a full life and I will continue to listen to my body; feed it what it needs spiritually, emotionally and physically. I take one day at a time and treat my symptoms as it comes. Rest when I need to rest or as soon as I can get home. I appreciate the energy I have, the family and friends and support and I look forward to my future adventures!

 

Finding the balance: Working full-time, going to school full-time and living with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome

Finding balance is always tricky for me. Balance between working, resting and having some semblance of a life is challenging for most but I also crave extra challenge and personal growth. I always loved school and have wanted to go back for years. It was never possible physically or financially before. Since I started working in oil and gas industry, I’ve worked long hours and worked strong and diligently as much as could, taking on extra projects, even long-term extra responsibilities. This left me drained physically and mentally. When I changed companies in 2010, it was an effort to find more balance. I enjoyed the new job, the stable work hours and the less stressful environment.

So, what changed?
I work 8 – 5, live close to work so it is only a 10 minute walk and was able to oversee a large project transferring our wireless device management to an outside company. But It wasn’t enough. The job was something I’ve done for years, IT administration. Is that all I was ever going to do? What about writing? What about starting my own business? Where would I be in another 5 years?

Here it comes… Schooling!

I started investigating DeVry and discovered that I could do a Bachelor’s degree without stepping into a classroom. Yes, it would be expensive. And a lot of work. I’m not a huge fan of commitment so this was a big one. It requires discipline, a huge amount of energy and a major lifestyle change. It means studying, homework, getting to work every day and studying most evenings and a chunk of every weekend. The pro and con lists were extensive.

RISKS

• Relapse of CFS
• Ability to do my job effectively suffers
• Financial commitment
• Embarrassment if I didn’t do well or succeed

BENEFITS

• Finally get the education I’ve dreamed of
• Find out if I can do more than just working
• Learn the discipline to work extra at home to use for future writing projects
• Enhance my career as it is, with or without writing
• Personal growth
• and the list goes on, and on…

Where am I at now?
I am at the same company, but moved to a new role as a Service Desk Analyst. This allows me to grow in my day job along with my studying. I started my degree February 27, 2012 and am estimated to graduate by mid-late 2014. Thanks to earlier course credits and my entrance exam results, I do not have to take a lot of the required entrance courses like social sciences and humanities. Instead, most of my 2.5 years will be spent learning relevant material like data analysis, management and planning. I’m halfway through semester 2 and enjoying it very much.

• I also now have a 2.5 month old kitten, Oscar who loves to help me with my studies. He loves to play with pens, paper and laptops so he provides lots of entertainment.